Other Similar Vests

May 5, 2017

When I collaborated with Ironwear to create my vest, all the women’s vests he had went on over the head and had weight over the breast. I didn’t want that so I asked for a zippered front vest and no weights on the breasts.

It wasn’t easy to collaborate with him because he was very busy and didn’t have much confidence in my ability to sell the product.

Finally after a year I got the vest the way I wanted it. One thing I had to really insist on was the horizontal weights at the top of the back. His other vests had 3 layers of vertical weights – which is not good for women with neck or shoulder problems. And that is most of us considering what we do all day.

So then I asked him not to sell our collaborative design to other osteoporosis sites.

Now he is selling the same vest, excepting for the horizontal weights that he was so opposed to, to Better Bones, Susan Brown. Susan just sent out a newsletter claiming to have Ironwear’s latest and sleekest women’s vest design.

That made me mad. I don’t like deceptive marketing. She has the same vest I got 5 years ago excepting for the horizontal weights on the back.

I have already had 3 enquiries as to the difference between her vest and mine and it’s going to be annoying having to answer that question all the time, so here you have it.

My weight vest is also cheaper because I don’t make a living from Osteoporosis. I had it, made a solution, now I no longer have it and this site is a service to help other women. I make about $35- on the vest after all the expenses and that’s not counting any of my labor.

I put all the information I find in my life’s work of researching health, on the site for free instead of selling it. I also have a different perspective from Susan, who goes to all the osteoporosis conferences that are paid for by the drug companies.

My overall desire is for all of us to get off all drugs and find natural solutions to our problems. It is my humble opinion, with plenty of evidence, that the drug companies are killing us all slowly, so they get our last dime before we go.

I am really sorry for so many women who call with an incredible array of physical problems and wonder how that happened. So I will keep this site and my healthyover50.com site going as long as I can stand the aggravation from all the changes in the internet, lousy marketing tactics, etc.

Love always


Scoliosis, Dowager’s Hump and Yoga

September 2, 2016

I just read an amazing article about a woman with Dowager’s Hump and extreme back pain who was cured by a certain kind of yoga. I had never thought it was possible to be straight again after the back collapses but you can see it with your own eyes here.

The yoga teacher who taught her, Rachel Jesien had scoliosis since she was a child and finally found a solution in a certain kind of yoga. She gives lots of credits to other teachers so perhaps you can find one close to you if you need it.

I was so happy to read this. I hope those who need it see this post.


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We Are NOT All The Same

August 6, 2014

The truth of this title has been in my face lately. Selling a product like a weight vest to so many different ages and personalities of women is not an easy job 😉

I can usually say that women over 80 should probably not put weight on their spine, but some can. I can usually say that you should start out with fewer weights and work up, but women who go to the gym and work out regularly obviously don’t have to do that.

Now the weight vest is going a bit more mainstream I am getting more women who are probably not good candidates for it but their alternative doctor or physical therapist or friend has recommended it for them. I think it is women who find it for themselves online, read the whole site, and make up their own mind who will stick with it. Like everything else it requires work and commitment.

So I was learning something new lately and it included a test  that anyone can do to contact our own Inner Wisdom. It is a variation of muscle testing and I have never believed in that before because I believed that the thoughts of the person doing or getting the testing affected the result. But this one seems to work for me so I decided I would share it and see if it works for anyone else.

It is the Sway Test. You can be in the market and touch a food or package lightly and see if you sway forward, towards it, or backwards, away from it. The thing that makes it different is that you contact your Higher Power and your Inner Wisdom before you ask.

What you are trying to do is access the enormous vault of knowledge in your unconscious mind. By asking simple yes or no questions you can be sure there is no room for subtle evasions 😉

A good way to test it is to test something with GMOs or with Aspartame. Both of those things are guaranteed to be toxic to anyone’s system. If any of you are still ingesting either of them you really should do some research on mercola.com because there is new evidence of their toxicity all the time.

I did a video to show you how it works below. I am putting all my videos on Vimeo now since there are some people who don’t trust Youtube.

I’m sorry it was so long between blogs but I was getting my book finished. It will be on Amazon in a week or so – Come Home to Your Body.

I also watched a beautiful video this week on Blessings and the short story is that blessings are not religious or denominational, they are universal, wishing you all the best that the Universe has in store for you.

So Blessings,


Walk into a Happier Mood

April 24, 2014

Since you are supposed to walk for an hour a day with your weight vest to improve bone density, what else can you do on that walk that would accomplish something really life-changing for you?

A few days ago I was totally bummed with an emotional issue that I just couldn’t get out of my mind. So I was doing the hamster-wheel thing in my head going over and over it. I was walking on the beach because that is so healing for me but even that wasn’t really working to get me out of my funk.

Then a young woman walked by having a conversation with her earbuds and she was swinging her arms vigorously and walking like a powerful person. I suddenly noticed my internal and external physiology, my posture, and I got the realization I was walking like my mother in her last years. Towards the end her mind was going and she didn’t remember that she was loved plus she was afraid of dying so she walked like a scared, depressed person.

My posture wasn’t that bad but there was enough of that energy present to surprise me. I straightened up immediately and slid my shoulder blades down my spine trying to make them meet in the middle of my back. I swung my arms more vigorously and I lengthened my stride. I didn’t get on the phone because I think that is really insane on the beach 😉

Immediately I felt better, in fact I burst out laughing at the change. I suddenly saw the stew I was in from a new perspective and saw clearly that the other person was not going to change so all I could change was my reaction. I could create better boundaries so this person could not affect my self-image. I am fine, he is fine, we are just not walking the same path. Why would we be? We basically all have to find the path that works for us in this life.

So then I experimented with other emotional states as I walked along to see how many states I could get into and out of by merely changing my posture. I have a total belief in using the power of body awareness to create in your life but I somehow forgot to use that when I was in the dumps. Luckily my inner wisdom created this young woman to teach me in the moment I needed it.

So try it for yourself. Ask yourself some questions as you walk:

  • Am I walking like anyone I know?
  • Am I walking like BIG PAM or like little pam?
  • Is my body expressing any specific emotion with my movement?
  • Am I fully present in this moment – or in the past or future?
  • Am I expressing all the enthusiasm I could in this moment?
  • Am I allowing myself to feel the joy in the world in this moment?
  • Am I appreciating all that I have in this moment?
  • Am I sending back love to nature, or the planet, or Gaia, or trees, or flowers, or whatever in this moment.

Another fun thing you can do is mimic other people’s posture (after they pass) and see if you can feel what they are feeling when you do it. Many men in this culture walk with their toes turned out, duck walk, and it is really funny to try that and see how it feels; your belly goes out, your back arches.

Instead of just getting some exercise or improving your bones, you can be improving your capacity to change your emotions in your hour of walking.

Please let me know in the comments if you can make this work on the treadmill. It might be a little more difficult.

Enjoy your walking, and get your free morning meditation here – http://healthyover50.com/meditation/


Upper Body Strength

February 10, 2014

Several women have emailed to ask for some more upper body exercises because they feel so weak in that area. We don’t seem to do all the physical work of lifting children and carrying stuff around that we do when we have young families and it’s amazing how fast your body lets go of muscle when it’s not being used. So I made a video of some hanging exercises that I learned from Katy Bowman at AlignedandWell.com.

If you have shoulder injuries you can try just the first position and see how you do. Katy is like a Paleo movement person. I’m just starting a version of the Paleo diet so it is interesting how that ties in. My Feldenkrais training taught me that our modern ways of moving are not natural for our bodies. We constantly overuse certain movements and don’t use the full range of motion that our bodies have. Moving in spirals and circles is the natural way to move not in angles like soldiers.

Children especially are getting very restricted in their range of movement that they do every day. Their thumbs are getting overworked from electronics while their legs and arms are beginning to atrophy – just kidding, it’s not quite that bad yet 😉

Another exercise that I do every day for upper body strength is a handstand against the wall held for one minute. I do that while I’m waiting for my bathtub to fill so I rarely forget it and I’ve got some nice upper back muscle from that.

So, once again, if you have restrictions in your shoulders don’t go beyond the first exercise. You can just do the pushup against the wall that is on the exercise dvd until you gain some strength.

The version of the Paleo diet I will be starting soon is the Auto-Immune Paleo. It is extremely restrictive because it cuts out all the foods that are common sensitivities but it helps people with auto-immune diseases heal their gut and their immune systems so I am going to give it my best shot. I’ll tell you how it’s working in the next newsletter.

Meantime, enjoy your moving,